The woman who was raped by Tom Silvagni has confronted her attacker in court, saying his evil actions had violated not only her body but also her trust.
The woman, who asked not to be named, stared down Silvagni on Friday morning as he was beamed into the Victorian County Court on a video link from prison.
The youngest son of AFL great Stephen Silvagni barely reacted as the woman laid out how his crimes and series of lies changed her life forever.
“You didn’t just violate my body that night, you violated my trust,” she told Silvagni.
“It’s actually terrifying that someone you thought you knew and trusted could do something so evil.”
A jury found Silvagni digitally raped the woman at his Melbourne home in the early hours of January 14, 2024.
The woman, who had been in a brief relationship with Silvagni’s friend, was invited to join them all at the house by Silvagni’s girlfriend.
The four of them chatted for some time before heading separately to bed and the victim had consensual sex with her boyfriend.
He then had to leave so he organised an Uber and left the property shortly before 2am.
Silvagni then went to the woman’s room and lied, claiming her boyfriend’s Uber had been cancelled and he would be back upstairs soon.
But it was Silvagni who went into the dark bedroom a short time later and pretended to be the woman’s boyfriend as he digitally raped her.
She managed to move away and ask directly if he was Silvagni but he still claimed to be the other man.
Silvagni then grabbed both of the woman’s hands, pinned her down and digitally raped her a second time while she told him to stop.
The woman managed to get a hand free and felt his hair, which was longer than her boyfriend’s, and that’s when Silvagni stopped and ran from the room.
He returned a few minutes later and acted as if nothing had happened, instead asking her if she was OK and requesting a hug before she left.
In the days that followed, Silvagni fabricated an Uber receipt to make it look like the woman’s boyfriend had left his home after 2.30am.
Silvagni admitted forging the receipt but said he did so because he panicked after being falsely accused of rape.
But the jury rejected his story, finding him guilty of the two rape charges on December 5.
Silvagni had been calculated as he sought to take advantage of the woman’s vulnerability and trust, crown prosecutor Jeremy McWilliams told the court.
“To deny the reality of her experience, even at that time, in that way, demonstrates … a real lack of empathy, a real sense of entitlement,” he said on Friday.
Silvagni’s parents Stephen and Jo both shook their heads and muttered to each other as Mr McWilliams made his submissions.
The couple only came into the courtroom after the victim had finished reading her statement.
Outside of court, Stephen Silvagni broke down as he indicated his son would appeal the verdict.
“Our son continues to maintain his innocence and we stand firmly behind him,” Mr Silvagni said.
“Our goal is to clear his name and bring him home.”
David Hallowes SC, representing Silvagni, accepted the offending was serious but argued his client was a young man from a loving family with no prior convictions.
He told the court Silvagni had suffered additional punishment from the extensive media attention, following the suppression over his identity being lifted on Thursday.
Silvagni should also receive a lighter sentence because his time in custody would be more difficult due to his poor mental health and risk of suicide, Mr Hallowes said.
Judge Gregory Lyon remanded Silvagni in custody ahead of his sentencing hearing on Wednesday.
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